Why you are still single? By Gavi
Many
people believe that
the life you are leading is the life that you subconsciously want. If
that is the case, then why are you still single when you think you want
to be part of a couple? It’s a complicated question, but I want to give
you some food for thought. I’m not going to attempt to psychologically
evaluate the reasons you may be sabotaging a relationship, but I can
suggest some red flags that might indicate that this is exactly what
you are doing. Whether dealing with internet dating, a matchmaker, a
blind date, or a serendipitous meeting, what are your main criteria
when evaluating a mate? If your complaint is that you are looking for
an honest, ethical partner but having no luck, then I can understand
the dilemma. If, however, you are limiting your search to someone who
meets your physical preferences, then I will tell you that you should
be ready to stay single. If you are eliminating potential partners
because they don’t meet some physical ideal of yours, I can almost
guarantee you that you will simply never be happy with anyone, because
NOBODY is going to exactly meet your ideal, and if you are superficial
enough to use physical attributes as an eliminator, then your
shallowness is probably obvious to your date, and they will lose
interest in you.
A happy life in a rewarding
relationship has a lot more to do with the moral qualities of your
partner, than their physical attributes. If you limit your search to
height, age, weight, and hair color requirements, then your odds of
finding a partner and building a happy life are greatly reduced.
Obviously, there should be a physical attraction between two people,
but a large percentage of attraction is personality, and you can’t know
if that invisible chemistry exists unless you take a chance and meet
even those to whom you are not initially physically attracted.
Basically, I’m saying, get your priorities in order and everything else
will fall into place. And if you do so, you will be one step closer to
that “coupledom”, that you say that you want.
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Sara gets to know all clients on a personal level and all introductions are made on a selective one on one basis. Sara’s thorough screening and selection process ensures that potential romantic partners are carefully matched based on family values, background, personality and other important considerations unique to each individual.
Ongoing Evaluation & Feedback
Each client receives the personal guidance and support to make his or her Jewish dating experience comfortable and satisfying.
What Makes A World of Jewish Singles Successful?
The Personal Touch
Sara Malamud is a professional matchmaker who specializes in matchmaking, not to be confused with ordinary dating services.
Exclusive
Sara’s clients are successful, attractive and highly marketable Jewish singles- men and women who are looking for a committed, long term relationship… NOT JUST A DATE!
Careful Screening
Sara gets to know all clients on a personal level and all introductions are made on a selective one on one basis. Sara’s thorough screening and selection process ensures that potential romantic partners are carefully matched based on family values, background, personality and other important considerations unique to each individual.
Ongoing Evaluation & Feedback
Each client receives the personal guidance and support to make his or her Jewish dating experience comfortable and satisfying.
